Question:
A year ago my mother was diagnosed with lung cancer with the prognosis less than a year. A good friend of my mom’s and dad’s visited and told my dad in private of a female friend of hers that married a recently widowed man, indicating that it was a win win situation for both. He received a housekeeper and she received a permanent pension. He then proceeded to tell my mom and sister of the private conversation which upset my mom and rightly so.
My mom passed three months ago and my dad, with a prognosis of less than one year, has mentioned this mutual friend on many occasions such as marrying her in a joking way. He recently mentioned that he would think it appropriate if she received something from his will if she was his long term companion.
My question is if he did marry her, but not change his will, what would she be entitled to? He lives in a house that my mother struggled to pay off years ago so they would be debt free in addition to putting away a nice savings.
Putting aside our feelings toward this lady that betrayed my mother, we want to do what is best for my dad.
Answer:
She would be entitled to everything as a normal course of the law. Normally, the living spouse is entitled to all community assets. Children are normally in line after spouse. Even if there was a will she would have a strong case to contest it.
Your father could set up a living trust, separate the assets and put you children on as beneficiaries of the trust. But this has a lot of snags and loopholes that can get sticky.


















